Saturday, December 31, 2011

"Twas' the FLUSH Before New Year's"



"Twas' the Flush before New Year's"
By: Stacey L. Bolin

Twas' the Flush before New Year's,
the toilet was weeping.
A drip here, a drip there,
while we all were sleeping.

It started out little,
then it started to pour.
And by early next morning,
it had soaked threw the floor.

The new ceiling was tarnished,
with one spot, then two.
Mom was a yelling,
what the Hell should we do!

Mom started to cry,
and then she got mad.
The new ceiling was saved,
thank goodness for Dad.

Dad, he was smart,
he knew just what to do.
He shut off the valves,
to stop the pee and the poo.

A quick fix, he thought,
but it just wasn't so.
And with mom and some cash,
to Home Depot they'd go.

The traffic was busy,
on a cold Friday night.
But in the store isles,
no one was in sight.

They stood there a starin'
which one would flush best?
And soon one was chosen,
forget all the rest.

Several twists of some screws,
and a yellow wax ring.
The directions had promised,
no more leaks from this thing.

With a bone colored finish,
and a lid like a dome.
 Now it stands proudly,
a new throne for our home.

So if you my dear friends,
have the same troubles to be.
Remember its New Year's,
and be glad you can pee.





Yes this poem was about our family. It wouldn't be a holiday season if
we didn't experience some kind of water trouble.
We can look at it this way -
The King and Queen of the Bolin home,
have a new throne for the New Year. LOL.

Friday, December 30, 2011

Ring Your Inner Bell - All Year Long



I know that out across our great planet there is hatred, starvation, depression, loneliness, hardship, homelessness, violence towards others and even death. If there was a way that we could all change everything bad with one big wave of that magic wand, you know we would. I know there are people out there who are going through their own life challenges and struggles and I am sure it gets frustrating when you hear friends and family say, "it will get better you just have to let it get better in your mind." That is so much easier said than done - in most cases. I know for myself I was so excited for the changes once I saw that I could accomplish them.
Here it is, the last Friday of 2011. Tomorrow is New Year’s Eve and as much as the beginning of this year was an emotional and stressful mess, it transformed into a year filled with peace, love and understanding that I wish would never end. Not only did I reconnect with my husband and boys again, I also found the bond with my mother and my husband’s mother and father. To me, It feels like everything is right, and I wanted something to symbolize our life successes if/when bad times come upon my family in the future.
Low and behold, while traveling with my family, I came across and item that for me was the perfect reminder of all that is good. A Sterling Silver Sleigh Bell. I won't know when or where, in the New Year, that we will remove this sterling silver beauty from its green velvet pouch. But what I do know is when I find myself feeling down, angry, sad, or any negative emotion for any reason, I will seek immediate solace in the beauty and glorious sound of the Silver Bell. I will let its mystical tone bring me to a place in my mind of peace, love, happiness, and joy and I will remember what is important to me and my family.
I wish I had the ability to put one of these Silver Bells into anyone’s hand that wanted one. However, I realize the Silver Bell is just a material item and we can't carry it around wherever we go, but we can all carry our own Silver Bell in our hearts and when life is getting us down - stop and take a moment for yourself to listen to the glorious sound of happiness in your hearts all year long.
So as you face the year 2012 or any years after that, always remember to ring your inner bell and smile - We'll know what it means and it will make people wonder what we are up too. Happy New Year 


Thursday, December 29, 2011

Had to Share this - ENJOY!

I didn't write these but, I'll be honest after reading it, and it was an ad for printer ink and paper, so I put a twist on some of them. Either way, I thought the idea for 101 New Year’s Resolutions was interesting. I found this on a website, but for the life of me can't find it again to post the link. 3 more day till the New Year.

101 New Year's Resolution Ideas
1. Spend More Time with Family & Friends
2. Print an Exercise Plan
3. Quit Smoking
4. Enjoy Life More
5. Quit Drinking
6. Get Out of Debt
7. Learn Something New
8. Help Others
9. Get Organized make a to do list
10. Clean your printer at least every two months
11. Eat chocolate often
12. Send flowers to near & dear ones
13. Have a positive set of mind
14. Don't pretend you are someone you’re not
15. Think beyond the given conditions and the present
16. Smile more often - It makes people wonder what you’re up too.
17. Clean the bedroom, at least weekly
18. Write and continue writing a diary (or blog :)
19. Respond to all emails
20. Listen to music regularly
21. Print one love letter a week
22. Chat with common sense and honesty
23. Be yourself
24. Listen to your heart
25. Gift yourself you are worth it!
26. Print your own letterhead
27. Beg pardon... after burping
28. Do Sudoku games
29. Change socks daily
30. Don’t run out of printer ink
31. Recycle paper
32. Drink more.....WATER
33. Accept your flaws
34. Print your own cards
35. Wear an attitude, not pride
36. Talk more... text less
37. Don't litter
38. Make a Scrapbook
39. Print labels for everything at home and at the office
40. Print Coupons
41. Write letters
42. Print your own maps
43. Call friends
44. Listen to Jazz
45. Get a Pen Pal
46. Print your own postage stamps save yourself a drive to the post office.
47. Make Birthday cards and send them out
48. Create out-of-the-box ideas/designs for business cards
49. become more reliable
50. Benefit from local resources

51. Print your own gift boxes
52. Check emails less and close IM’s when working online
53. Reorganize your office space
54. Print recipes and store them to share
55. Trust your gut feeling more
56. Spend more time with family and less time working on the weekends
57. Print time sharing schedules
58. Be more consistent with daily work habits
59. De-clutter your entire house or business inside and out
60. Reuse, Reduce and Recycle
61. Print your own calendars
62. Think Green when purchasing
63. Dare to be different; find what your niche is missing and fill in the gap
64. Print your own T-shirts
65. Resolve to Relive Childhood
66. Learn a Less-Than-Useful Skill
67. Break a World Record
68. Print your own photos
69. Adopt a New Vice
70. Get comma problems under control
71. Read and memorize more poetry
72. Print gift certificates for loved ones
73. Learn the names of flowers
74. Count to 10, 20, and 100 whatever you need to blow it off
75. Use recycled materials
76. Remanufactured cartridges are recycled materials
77. Print your own concert tickets

78. Got to a concert with your friends tickets
79. Print in draft mode when possible
80. Print in both sides of the paper
81. Live . . . Love . . . Laugh MORE!
82. Print your own designer Thank You cards often
83. Take a moment to smell the roses.
84. No longer waste time relieving the past; instead I spend it worrying about the future.
85. Do less laundry and use more deodorant.
86. Try to figure out why you *really* need nine e-mail addresses
87. Share your story with others (Every has their own story)
88. Don’t tell the same story at every get together
89. Don’t worry so much.
90. Listen to music you wouldn't normally listen too
91. Be more imaginative.
92. Start living outside the box.
93. Save money - make your own coffee and muffins in the morning
94. Spend more time watching TV / movies
95. Start buying lottery tickets at a luckier store
96. Always "check for paper" before and after leaving a public restroom.
97. Always check for “paper” before you hit the print button!
98. Learn what the hell "resolution" means.
99. Sleep whenever possible
100. Stop having mock cell phone conversations to avoid talking to or acknowledging people
101. Have fun at all times and in all places!

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

New Year's Resolution - You can do it!


To make a change, you must first start from within.
It is that glorious time of year again, when millions of people vow to do or change something in their lives because of the New Year. Yet when reading the stats on this idea, 8 out of 10 never completely follow through.  I know myself, for years I would always make the resolution that I would be more organized, only to finally come to the realization that I think I need a specialist to help me with that idea.  I can organize anyone else to the point of perfection, but for myself - I am a lost cause. I can say that my New Year's resolution for last year has me 4 days away from saying I actually followed through and met my goals.  In December of last year I was extremely overweight, I learned that I was diabetic and I was very unhappy with life in general. Yes, I had even considered if life would be better for my family if I wasn't around anymore, and I didn't mean move to another town or state. My self-esteem had been completely destroyed, my kids were having problems in school, I was out of work, we were in debt up to our foreheads and my husband was going through the change that most men go through in their late 30's to early 40's and getting advice from women who had been married more than twice. Yeah, I'd take their advice - NOT!  All I can say is Ladies I am sure you meant well, however I know what all the discussions were and there is always TWO SIDES to every story.
OK, so I sound like a sad country song. But I needed to share with you what set the tone for my New Year's Resolution for 2011. Pretty crappy hua? I'd say it was.  I was in extremely rough shape. Honestly, when I made my resolution, in my mind I was already planning on my failure. I could actually hear my own inner voice in my mind saying that I was stupid, fat, that I never finish anything, why start now, and so on and so on. But in spite of the voices, I began to follow through on Jan 1, 2011 with my plan and here is what I had listed for myself to accomplish.

My New Year's Resolution for 2011
1.      I love my husband and will learn to communicate my feelings and needs as well as listen to my husband and his feelings and needs.
2.      I was going to be a size 12 (I was a size 26 when I began)
3.      I would have a deeper connection with my family and feel better about myself
4.      That I will speak from the heart and share my feelings in all situations.
5.      I would stay away from people who were constantly negative - as it only brings me down.
6.      Try to get organize (Hey I put it on my list but fell on and off this wagon many times in 2011)
7.      Get out of debt
8.      Enjoy quality time with my husband and sons
9.      I will help my kids achieve their educational goals.
10.  I would finish my book and have it published by our Anniversary
Yes - I can hear you now - 10 things Stacey! It's bad enough to stick to one item, but 10?! To know me, is to know that 10 is not even the tip of the ice berg, but were the most important. The first two months of this journey was complete Hell! My family was not used to my change in personality and the way I ate, I guess I should have taken a more subtle approach, but I jumped in with both feet and was going for the gusto, which has usually led to me running out of steam by March and giving up on my plan for good. But not this time. I think it was the fact that I was tired of being overweight and I felt this was some of the reason my husband was finding emotional comfort elsewhere. (He did admit this was part of the reason in addition to another fault of mine, that I didn't listen. This was my wake-up call and it was time make some serious changes.) To me, elsewhere was going to stop once and for all. A boyfriend or girlfriend/husband or wife seeking emotional solace outside of their relationship is asking for trouble on the home front. Trust me folks, it is a small fire that can quickly get out of control and will destroy everything in its path. I have seen it happen to other relationships and I refused to let it ruin the love between my husband and me. 
My belief and many of you may not agree with me - so be it if you don't.  If you are in any relationship whether it is with a man or woman - communication is the life line of a great relationship. No matter if the topic is good or bad, the couple should be talking at all times, but when one goes outside the relationship for attention or even worse an ego stroking - guarantee you will have trouble on your hands. Get mad all you want at this statement, but for me. My husband is married to me and I am married to him. When listening to people talk or what we are exposed to on TV, it just seems like life has no boundaries or respect anymore. A perfect example, if a person has a ring on, it's now a challenge of temptation to others, not a level of understanding that he or she is off the market. My philo - you see the rings or know they are married - move along.  I could go on for hours on this topic, but I'm jumping off my soap box as this is about Resolutions not Temptations.
So, for my husband and me, it took much longer to mend the wounds that we both caused each other because we were not telling each other how we were feeling.  Day by day we found the ability to speak without fear, of how the other would react, and low and behold things started changing for the better. We just needed to start communicating with one another on our feelings and what we wanted in life and what would be our future after our kids had graduated. We found out we both wanted the same things in our life together and wanted to get away from the crazy city life for a more country type atmosphere. For us, communication was the peace in the valley we had been wanting.
I also think my kids issues in their schools stemmed from their feeling the tension between my husband and I, because once that was resolved, life took a completely positive change for both of them in their personal lives, at home, and at school.  I stuck to my nutritional plan and found that Yoga was a great way to free your mind, body and soul. We finally got ourselves out of debt and my first book, that took me 22 years to put together, was published on May 26th, which would have been our original wedding day, but if you read the book you'll find out why we chose May 6th, instead. My organization skills are still weak, but improving daily. We have spent ample quality time together as a family and that alone has brought us all so close together that I can't help but shed a tear of happiness as I think of all the fun we have had as a family. Yesterday I went to my cardiologist to see what my heart was doing and thus far I have prevented any further damage since I have lost all the weight and reached my goal of being a size 12.
So to know that I have four days to go before I can officially say I have followed through with my New Year's Resolutions for the 2011 year, I am so happy both inside and out. I have found my love of a life time once again. I have reconnected with my kids - and for me that is, and will forever, be my priority in life. For my New Year's Resolution of 2012 - Continue with the same list and then add some additional things here and there, but overall life, family, love, marriage, budgets, they all take work and commitment, just because you have written it out as a goal for one year, doesn't mean that you don't continue to maintain things.  For me, I knew what I wanted and what I needed to do to make these changes in myself. Once I made the changes within, everything else fell into place.
To each and every one of you:
May the New Year be all that you hoped and dreamed of, and that it be filled with great health, enriched with pure love, blessed with peace of mind and drenched with an abundance of sheer happiness.
Thank you all for joining me and supporting my blog. I am excited for the things to come and look forward to writing in the New Year.
Most Sincerely: BU3 Retired Stacey L. Bolin

Monday, December 26, 2011

Wanna Know What You Can Do With Your...

Wanna Know What You Can Do With Your...Turkey.
Well, we survived another holiday and all the food and festivities that go along with it. So here it is the night after Christmas and in the refrigerator sits what is left of an 18lb turkey that had been roasted for our Christmas dinner yesterday. There was only the four of us sitting up to the table to enjoy mashed potatoes, corn in a butter sauce, stuffing, turkey, gravy and homemade rolls. Now I don't know about the rest of you, but I always look forward to the left overs to make turkey sandwiches with super soft bread, mayo and stuffing on it. Yum! But I will say is that you can only eat two or three of those before they get to be old on the taste buds.  Tonight, my family was already asking for something different for dinner.  I think if I recall correctly it was - Mom, can we fry up something in the cooker? French Fries and Chicken Nuggets? Please!
OK, don't tell em' but I've had my fill of turkey too, but I couldn't let this big beautiful roasted bird go to waste. So I did what any good cook would do - Get creative and make it worth eating one more time. I'd like to share with you, my newest twist on turkey dinners and how to get a finicky family to eat and enjoy it. Years ago my grandmother created a recipe called chicken lump lump, yes I know it sounds very scary, but all the recipe had in it was chicken gravy and chicken, the small bits of flour that didn't break down to thicken it, I guess were the lumps or the chicken meat was the lumps, to this day nobody knows, but it was good just the same.  It's funny to think about it now. All I could envision, as a young child, was chicken pot pie or chicken and dumplings and the dough was not cooked. YIKES!!  No fear, there isn't any dough in this recipe, but from the response from my husband and two boys, this dish is a keeper.  This recipe is quick and easy to put together. I hope you like it.

Twisted Turkey Gravy on Minute Rice
Feeds a family of 4
In a 3.5qt/3.3L sauté' pan mix the following (7) ingredients together on med heat until bubbly, then turn down to simmer and cover for 10 minutes stirring occasionally.  Cook rice separately.
2 Cups Turkey Stock
1 Can cream of mushroom soup
1/2 Cups Water
1/2 Cups Milk
3 Cups of cut up turkey meat
1 Tablespoon Flour (to thicken to desired texture)
Salt and pepper to taste
3 Cups cooked minute rice (Follow directions on box. Cook in a 3qt sauce pan)
La Choy Chow Mein noodles.
Once mixture is hot, pour over cooked rice garnish with La Choy Chow Mein noodles.
Enjoy! 

Saturday, December 24, 2011

"Peaches for Christmas" Written by: Stacey L. Bolin

Copyright 2011 Stacey L. Bolin

All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the written prior permission of the author.
Please note this story is a work of fiction with the exception of state and town mentioned.




"Peaches for Christmas"
Written by: Stacey L. Bolin
Patty sat at her dining room table with only the illumination of her heavily decorated mantle of green garland, white lights and numerous crystal snowflakes that she had collected over the years.  She gazed upon the prisms rays that danced across the room from each illuminated snowflake. Her husband had taken their three kids out to do some last minute Christmas shopping and to give her some time to herself before relatives would start making their grand holiday appearance to signify Christmas Day would soon be here.
“How peaceful,” she though while sipping a hot cup of tea and an occasional bite of a tree shaped sugar cookie that her children helped her decorate earlier in the day. It was hard to believe that it was the day before Christmas Eve.  The presents were wrapped, the cards were mailed out, and the house was decorated to the point of testing the capacity of the fuse box in the basement. With the occasional smell of something burning in the oven, all but one dozen cookies survived the cooking rush.  It was a great relief to know that all the Christmas food traditions, request by her husband and kids had been baked and sampled. To everyone, it appeared that Patty Granger had it together, yet something was still missing after all that she had accomplished - she had lost her Christmas Spirit.
She tried to convince herself that her spirit had been lost in the overcrowded stores, the endless miles of cars and grid locked traffic trying to get across town or the fact that stamps had gone up another two cents. Forty cents to mail a card was highway robbery. She chuckled to herself when she recalled her grandma Nettie sharing her disgust that stamps went up from five cents to six cents, in a time when it was customary to send out an awe-inspiring number of Christmas cards.  No matter how many excuses she would try to reach for, to explain her loss of the Christmas Spirit, only one would be the real reason – Grandma Nettie’s passing four years ago. Little by little, Patty just couldn’t find that little girl inside her that was always excited about the holidays. Since she had gotten the news that Grandma had made the trip to heaven, holiday’s always felt like something was missing.
Patty had always felt so bad, when she recalled when Nettie got after her for not mailing her a Christmas card, even though Patty was sure she had. It wasn’t until a month after Nettie’s passing, while she was cleaning out her car, that she had discovered that the card had fallen down between the seats. It was addressed, stamped, but would never arrive for Nettie’s last Christmas.  Then adding to her sorrow about the Christmas card, she was forced to face an even harder part of life. Since grandpa had passed more than twenty years ago, and then the passing of Nettie, their home began to fall victim to the emptiness of lifeless rooms that were once filled with laughter, love and care. It was a hard choice, but the family eventually decided it was best to sell the home to someone who could either bring it back to life, or tear it down and rebuilt. This broke Patty’s heart, as she felt she would lose her connection to her grandmother completely.
“Grandma Nettie, how I miss you…I am so sorry” she whispered into the quiet of the room. “Can you see me Nettie? Can you hear me? Can you help me find my Christmas Spirit?  I’m so tried Nettie, I’m so tired. Please help me find my spirit again. Show me something that tells me you are still listening.” Accompanying her words, she began to weep softly. To Patty, Nettie was her everything. She was there to listen to her struggles growing up from a young girl into a woman. She gave the best advice anyone could without judgment and no matter what path Patty chose, good or bad, Nettie would always say, “You’re the oldest grandchild, someone has to cut the path to teach the rest right from wrong.” Nettie was also the one who taught Patty how to cook everything and anything to keep a growing family healthy and strong even on the smallest of budgets. This was a lesson that Patty learned exceptionally well and would smile when her husband would remark to others, “My wife may have her faults, but cooking isn’t one of them.”
“Ok Patty, nothing worse than tears for Christmas. Think of something that makes you happy in addition to your family.” Then a smile came across her face as she went many years back into her childhood memories to a Christmas where her passion for the Holidays began.  Never in her wildest of dreams could she have ever imagined, that this Christmas memory held a very special secret that was about to be revealed and the gift that would change her and her families lives forever.

***

Awe, there was nothing like the change of the fall season in New Hampshire.  The trees had shed the last bit of autumns color and the skies were painted a cold steely grey to suggest that Mother Nature was getting ready to blanket the Lakes Region area into a sparkling white winter wonderland.  She was a big dreamer.
When Patty was a 4th grader at Elm Street School, it was then her talent began - She knew when winter was going to make its grand appearance, she could smell snow.  Yes, it was indeed a very odd talent for a child to be so sure of, but non-the-less her ability never failed here.  The others students would mock and make fun of her when she would comment that she could smell snow in the air.
“You’re so stupid Patty. Everybody knows that you can’t smell snow!” They would shout out as they laughed and pointed at her like some freak side show at the circus.  But patty knew that they were all just jealous. Her special ability to smell snow’s arrival was as real as the nose on her face and it never let her down and Grandma Nettie would boast, “Chin up child, they’re only jealous as you know when school will be closed because of the weather.” Then Nettie would smile that special smile.
Along with snow, Patty loved Christmas, all the brightly colored wrapped packages and ribbons of gold and silver. How her eyes would twinkle in amazement as she’d look upon their Christmas tree that shimmed with colored lights and a heavy adornment of tinsel. At the age of three, there were gifts as far as her eyes could see, but over time the change in the economy hit her family hard. Christmas became more of gifts of necessity and need vs. want. The bright packages and bows became newspapers and brown bags decorated in crayon. Times were difficult for the Hamilton’s and having food on the table or gifts under the tree where the choices the family faced.  Yet that didn’t get them down as they realized that it wasn’t about the gifts under the tree, Christmas was so much more than that.  It was about family and celebrating the birthday of the Baby Jesus.
The one Christmas Eve that had etched its memory deep within Patty soul all started with a knock at the front door as the family sat in the living room around the fireplace singing Christmas carols.  Much to the family’s surprise, when they opened the door the only thing they found was a homemade jar of canned peaches shimmering in the light of the porch that was reflecting on the snow that framed the jar. How delicious they looked. What a beautiful and wonderful gift. Her family was so excited, but one question still remained, it was a wonderful gift - but from whom? They oddest thing about this gift, each year around the same time, there would be a knock at the door and a gift of homemade canned peaches would be sitting  on the welcome mat, but no name or indication who the kind stranger was that would leave such a wonderful gift.  Mother was wise and knew that somehow she much find a way to share the families thanks, and so with hopes and wonderment, Patty and her mother would make a homemade Christmas card just for this stranger thanking them for the delicious gift and invite them in for the following Holiday season. Each year, nobody would say they had provided the delicious gift, yet their homemade card would be gone and a mason jar of peaches would be in its place.  
Grandma Nettie loved to tell her friends of the special gift that her Son’s family had been receiving for many years each Christmas Eve. People would be amazed to learn that still this mysterious gift did not have a name or a face to put with it and would still find its way to the family’s door even after Patty was all grown up and had a family of her own. Without fail her mother would call her and say, “Guess what arrive on the door step this year?  I’ll bring them with us to the family dinner tomorrow as I know how much you love them.”
“Mom, how much longer will we get these peaches before we ever learn who is doing this?” she question some years ago.
“I don’t know sweetie. I wish I did and I am so very grateful. It made many hard Christmas’s so very special to all of us. It would be a shame to never learn the identity of the kind person behind the gift.”
But one Christmas Eve about two years ago, her mother called. She had waited for hours for knock that never came. This time the card remained and there were no peaches to be found. Everyone knew that this time would come, as nothing lasts forever, yet they were more saddened that they couldn’t thank the unknown someone in person.
***

“Hon, Mom, we’re back from the store.” Her Husband and children yelled out as they made their way into the house. Patty’s quiet time was officially over.
“Peaches!” It was the peaches!” Patty turned and exclaimed to her husband.
“Are you talking about the peaches you got as a mystery gift each year as a kid? Maybe having alone time isn’t the best thing for you sweetie.” He smiled.
“Yes I am talking about the Christmas Peaches. When our family was very poor, it was the gift of those peaches that brought our family together. God I wish I had a jar of them right now. I can still taste them as if they were fresh off the tree. If only I could find the person who made them, they should have been sold in the stores…they were so fantastic.”
The kids dragged their bags of gifts they had gotten for various family members, to their bedrooms to begin the secret collaboration of making each gift look extra special. Patty hoped that this year they would remember to put the gift tags on each gift. Oh what fun it was to open a present only to find it was for Grandpa Granger or Auntie Lynn. How funny it was when Grandpa opened a gift of new satin underwear that was for Auntie Lynn. It was certainly a Christmas to remember. As she watched the kids scour the house for scissors, wrapping paper and tape, the phone rang.
“I’ll get it” said Patty. “Hello?”
“Mrs. Granger?”
“Yes.”
“Patty Granger?”
“Yes…who is this?” she didn’t know the voice.
“Ma’am, you don’t know me, but I think I have something that belongs to you.”
“Excuse me?” She remarked with a sense of curiosity.
“Ma’am, I know it is Christmas time in all, but I really need to see you. I live about a town away, would it be possible for you to come to my home.”
“Sir, like you said I don’t even know you.”
“Please ma’am, you won’t be disappointed. Bring your family, they’ll all enjoy this. My address is 244 Willow Road in Meredith, New Hampshire.”
Patty dropped the phone and stood in complete shock.
“Patty! Patty! Hon, what’s wrong!?” said her husband after hearing the phone fall to the floor.
“Hello? Hello?” said the voice yelling over the phone “Ma’am? Are you there? Patty?”
“This is Patty’s husband, what can I do for you?”
Patty turned to look at her husband’s face as he spoke with the man on the phone. Judging by the look on his face, she had heard the information correctly. The address that the unknown person on the phone had provided was the address of her grandmother. Her husband gently hung up the phone and simply said that the whole family would be going to Meredith tomorrow. He didn’t seem worried about meeting a stranger and he also didn’t indicate why they were going in the first place. That night, Patty couldn’t sleep.
“Why would we be going back to my grandmother’s house that had already been sold?” she through over and over “Maybe they found something that belongs to the family?
Morning came quickly and in record time everyone was loaded up and underway to Meredith. Patty was so nervous and still questions filled her mind as to why a stranger would call her and want to see her at her grandmother’s old home. As they made their way down the street towards the home, cars lined the streets on both sides, faces of the young and old smiled as Patty and her family drove down the street.
“What is going on? Hon, do you have any idea what is going on?”
Her husband just smiled that devilish smile.
As they pulled up into the driveway and got out of their car, there were about fifty men lined up from the front of the house to a large moving van. They were carrying many old wooden crates that were being taken out of the house that appeared to be filled with something heavy. Just then a man turned and saw the family.
“Hold up guys…she’s here” Yelled a stranger.
“Hi. You must be Patty Hamilton.”
“Patty Hamilton is my maiden name, I’m Granger now.”
“Yes ma’am, I know all about you.”
“Sir, please…would you kindly tell me what is going on. What are you putting into that moving van?”
“Well, ma’am it is for you.”
“Me?”
Her husband smiled and said “Patty, it’s OK. You’ll want this. “
“Mrs. Granger, I am the one who brought your grandmother’s home. As we were working on its foundation we found a very large and very old root cellar.  Inside this extremely large root cellar were hundreds of these crates all marked “Patty’s Peaches” stacked to the ceiling and each jar was marked with a year on it if someone was making peaches to give away a year for the next 200 years.  I wouldn’t have believed what I was seeing until I read the handmade cards I found in a box on top of a current crate of peaches that had your name inside them.  You made had made the cards Patty.”
Patty was speechless as her mother stood with tears in her eyes and a smile upon her face. “Patty, Grandma Nettie always felt so bad that you were teased in school, and how sad you were when hard times fell upon us. She didn’t want you to lose your Christmas spirit and left that jar of peaches on our front door step all those years ago, to teach you the meaning of Christmas and the giving of one’s self. It was only to be that one Christmas, but when Nettie saw how much excitement you were filled with as you anticipated the arrival of Christmas because of a Gift of peaches, not a gift from the store or bright shiny paper and bows. She knew that the peaches had to become a tradition. But when she passed away, nobody knew where she stored the peaches and we were not aware that her hutch was hinged to the wall to hide the door to the root cellar, but was easy for Nettie to open. Oh and one more thing. Here is the recipe to make these wonderful peaches, but by the looks, I don’t think you’ll have to be making them anytime soon.”
“Grandma Nettie, made the peaches?”
“Yes dear and they were made for you.”
All of the Christmas Spirit that Patty was sure she had lost, had been found the moment she opened a jar and took a bite of the sweetest peaches she had only been able to remember in her memories.  Grandma Nettie had indeed been listening.   Patty had so many peaches that she wanted to share this special gift with those who know the story, but had never gotten to taste this sweet gift from the heart. Everyone was laughing and wishing each other a very Merry Christmas. Patty wanted to keep Nettie’s tradition going for years to come and she did just that.

As years passed, Patty had never forgotten that special gift and learning that the unknown stranger was actually her Grandma Nettie meant so much to her.  Christmas was forever merry and her Christmas Spirit was never lost again. To this very day, now that Patty’s children are grown up, you will still find her in her kitchen in the middle of summer putting together Grandma’ special recipe to give peaches for Christmas to all of her family with extra jars for years to follow. Grandma’s Christmas Tradition lives on.

Here’s wish you and yours a sweet and memorable Christmas season.


 

Thursday, December 22, 2011

"Peaches for Christmas" - The Newest In Christmas Stories To Debut on Christmas Eve.

My newest in short stories will debut here on blogger.com

"Peaches for Christmas"
by Stacey L. Bolin

       Patty Granger had it together.  The presents were wrapped, the cards were addressed, the house was decorated and all the cookies and sweet Christmas traditions had been baked, yet something was still missing - Patty had lost her Christmas Spirit.  Never in her wildest of dreams could she have ever imagined, the Christmas secret that was about to be revealed and the gift that would change her and her families lives forever.


Photo and Canned Peaches by: Stacey Bolin

Coming Christmas Eve 2011
(Eastern Standard Time)


Wednesday, December 21, 2011

A Treat Inside A Treat

Being so close to the upcoming Christmas event, I wanted to share a great recipe with you that I am sure will be a hit with friends, family and guests this season. I just made 5 dozen yesterday and they are going fast. I think I will have to say that this is one of my most favorite cookies to bake. I only make them for Christmas so that they are special and my family looks forward to them each year.  Enjoy!  Happy Baking.

SNICKER Bar Cookies
Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.

Ingredients:
1 Cup sugar
1 Cup brown sugar
1 Cup softened butter
1 Cup peanut butter
2 Teaspoons vanilla
2 eggs, beaten
1 Teaspoon baking powder
1 Teaspoon baking soda
3 Cups flour
1 (16oz.) Package of Miniature SNICKERS bars
Cream together sugar, brown sugar, butter and peanut butter.  Add vanilla and beaten eggs.  Mix. Then add baking powder, baking soda and flour. Mix well.  Cut miniature SNICKER bars in half.  Wrap dough around each bar forming a ball.  Place on ungreased or parchment paper lined cookie sheet.  Cookies will flatten as they bake, with candy bar as center filling. 

Bake for 12 minutes or until light golden brown.  Makes about 2 1/2 dozen cookies.  You can double recipe and it still comes out great. To fancy them up, melt one (16oz.) bag of semi-sweet chocolate bits and a quarter of a bar of paraffin wax together until smooth. Drizzle the melted chocolate onto the cookies with a spoon.
Yes - there is really a piece of SNICKER Bar inside each one.

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

"Cherry Cherry Christmas"

I heard this song for the very first time today and immediately fell in love with its melody and the words. OK, I love anything that Neil Diamond sings. He did a great job incorporating words from many of his song into these lyrics. I have added the link below so that you can hear the song. It lifted me up so much that I have had a smile on my face all day. I hope you enjoy it as much as I am. Cherry Christmas Everyone!

Cherry Cherry Christmas
By: Neil Diamond

Wish you a very Merry Cherry Cherry Christmas
and a holly holy holiday too.
Underneath your tree,
may there always be,
sounds of harmony not a song sung blue.

Just a very merry cherry cherry Christmas
and if all of those who love you gather near.
You'll have a very merry cherry cherry,
holly holy rockin' rolly Christmas this year.

When the snow drops, on the tree tops,
It's a pretty amazing scene.
Hear the choir, light the fire,
feels like pretty amazing grace if you know what I mean.

Oh yeah, it's Christmas time.

In a world of make believe, I’m a believer.
And I believe in things not always understood.
But the things you feel make believing real.
That's why Christmas feels,
So good,
So good,
So good.

When you imagine all the world is one great chorus,
you gonna learn that every voice has got a song.
Let’s raise a Christmas toast to red red wine,
we'll even sing sweet Caroline,
while the whole world sings along.

I hear music in the sound of children laughing,
it's a beautiful noise that lifts you like a song.
Makes ya wanna have a very merry,
holly holy, cherry cherry Christmas time the whole year long.
The whole year long.
Sing your Christmas song - The whole year long.
Cherry Christmas Everyone!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WjKaPHLPSXM