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ood Morning Everyone. Since my last posting
"Beware of Banking Fees" a lot has happened that I wanted to update
you on. As you remember the problem I was facing was with several overdraft
fees on my personal account that was never overdrawn. I had tried to rectify the problem with a
call to the customer service 800 line, only to be told - there was nothing they
could do. Now I would have to say with the challenges that I have experienced
in my life over the past twenty years, minor things can weight just as heavily
as major things that come up during day to day experiences. I would prefer to
avoid confrontation, but if I feel like a cat in a room full of rocking chairs,
confrontation is almost guaranteed until I feel I am getting a complete and
honest answer.
Now if you haven't had the pleasure of seeing me react when I find out I
am being lied to or had been lied too it can't be a very intense moment that if my head could spin around and around - it would, but that is another blog post for another
day as I don't want to shake up a perfectly good Thursday. On that note I'm going to move away from the lying topic and get back to my this banking saga. I decided that I was going to once again get a face to face meeting with someone from customer service to see what their answer would be this time. The next morning my day
was anything but routine. The bus never came to pick up my kids so that meant I
was their ride. I got myself together forgetting many important details, Hair,
makeup, matching clothes, etc., etc., etc., and we headed out the door by
6:59am. As we headed on our way to take my oldest son to the High School and my
younger son to the Vocational School to the next town, because at this point he
had missed the shuttle from the High School to get him there for his 7:25
class, my cell phone began ringing. Immediately my heart started to pound with
excitement - it's my sweetie, but his call was not one of speaking sweet
nothings to me, he wanted me to bring him his other work boots as he was
working with asphalt and didn't want to get tar and stuff on his new boots. By
this point I had almost forgotten that I set into my mind that I was going over
to the bank to address what I feel is a way banks try to scam people in this
drowning economy.
I got the kids to school, when back home and
got the boots, and now I am falling into a funk that I just want to go home and
do nothing - remember I hold a Doctorate's in Procrastination. (smile). The
traffic was getting backed up due to the morning rush and the gas tank was
reading lower than I'd like, yet somehow I found the ability to get my mind
back on track. I arrived at the bank two minutes before they opened, which gave
me time to plan out what I was going to say rather than come off as some
demanding ranging mother that didn't have time to do her hair or make-up. (I'm
surprised I wasn't arrested for indecent exposure from the neck up - hahaha).
So there I stood in the lobby, oversized work
out pants that were all stretched out, a jacket that looked like my pen had
taken it upon its self to randomly write on it, my hair crazier than Reverend
Jim on the 80's sitcom Taxi, and I was sporting a blank and very pale canvas color to my face that could
have landed me a roll on the AMC series "Walking Dead", and this is
NO LIE! I was a walking horror story. There wasn't one sign that this girl had
been asked to pose for Playboy as Miss August. I still have my letter. There was only one customer in the bank that
was standing at the teller window and took a look at me and then quickly looked
away so that he wouldn't turn to stone. I'm telling you, I am one scary mother,
no pun intended, in the morning that even I don't look into a mirror until at
least after 7:30am.
I will have to say that the customer service lady met me
with smile, but I can just envision what she was thinking. She asked me to come into her cubical and we
both looked over my account on her computer screen. Her screen was displaying
the same information as mine - never been overdrawn. her explanation was that the computer - I so
love how people blame inanimate objects, saw the debits of the day and then the
deposit on that same day so it believed that I didn't have the money when it
implement the charges before the credit posted. It was all I go do to refrain from going
into one of my sarcastic modes where I say - "AUH DUAH! HELLO! DO YOU HEAR
YOURSELF! FUDGE!!!!!"
However I didn't say anything and just kind
of shook my head in disbelief that I was even sitting there listening to this.
When she looked up at me after typing on her keyboard, she said something that
completely shocked me - I have reversed all but two charges Mrs. Bolin, and the
reason for that is a check that was written to you for $150.00, was returned
today and that is what produced the additional charges after the fees you have
been trying to fix. But the fees you got today were not overdraft fees that
were return check fees. With that, I was content. I was finally given a
straight answer.
So as you have probably guessed by now, our
account is now in good standing - knock on wood. Phew! I'm relieved that this
drama is behind me and I have learned a lot. When all else fails and it is
physically possibly, always try to resolve a problem in person. Never try to
use e-mail or texting as you can't tell what a person is feeling through their
words and unless they state what the emotion is one can jump to false
assumptions. Calling on the phone is convenient, but can still lead to stress
as the persons tone could be nothing like their body language and again you
could take their tone in a negative way, but it just might be the way the
person is. I'm glad I went with my instinct and chose to go back in. I am also
happy to report that the maker of the bad check - they paid me in cash and paid
for the fees. So what had started out as a morning without my routine, feel
back into a regular schedule and I completed the rest of my tasks for the day
without any problems.
Thanks so much for listening and remember, always be mindful of your money. Know where it is going, why it is going there and who is trying to get you to part with it. Have a wonderful day everyone and I'll blog you later.
P.S. My fictional mystery, suspense thriller titled "Deemed Crazy" is in it's final stages to be ready for print. I can't wait. I have really enjoyed stepping outside the box and write in a genre that year ago only read. Again, thanks for sticking with me and can't wait to share more blog stories on topics that people have sent in.
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